Focusing on attracting the goodness outside of you ultimately will increase your own happiness.
There is no separation between you and the universe. When you manifest abundance for others you are in turn manifesting for yourself.
Let that sink in for a moment….
When you wish for love, kindness, abundance, prosperity for your neighbor you are also creating these things for yourself.
When you are aligning yourself with your higher self-the true self- you merge together the idea of “them” and “me”. There is not distinction between them.
Take some time today to sit in stillness and wish for abundance for those people that you love, and for the entire earth and every person and being without exceptions.